Responsible spectatorship demands three simple guards. One: ask whether the people involved have agency over publication. Two: avoid amplifying material that appears nonconsensual or stolen. Three: resist the reflex to equate clarity with permission — a perfectly framed kiss is not an invitation to dissect or monetize someone’s intimate life. Platforms, too, must balance free expression with clear, enforceable standards for intimate content and swift remedies for those harmed by leaks.